What a tough word..isn´t it? … It seems that we do not have this word in our
daily vocabulary … it is one of those words that rarely sounds out in our
speech or in our mind …. Why is it so difficult for humans to concede? .. .
Why does the mind always seems to win this battle and never loses its will
and energy to raise barriers in front of us?
Today we will unveil this mystery …. Like all mysteries it is not something
that can be seen easily…it is not on the surface and therein lies its power …
its existence in the shadows lets it slip into our lives and we cannot notice it
Conceding involves many things and above all the need of having an open
For example telling someone that he is right regarding any matter under
discussion … "But could we accept that someone can be right if that will
make us feel that our Truth is not valid? … That would weaken the vision and
the concept we had about that situation ….our certainty would fall to the
It involves letting the others do or decide for us…. But how could we concede
that? …. That would make us feel that we are losing our power …. How
would we let someone else decide for us ?….
It means accepting a well-intentioned comment from someone who sincerely
wants to see us grow …. But how could we accept that? .. How can he dare
telling us what to do? …
It involves letting things flow rather than doing our best to keep everything
within our structure of life… But how can we let everything flow ?… How
could we allow ourselves to lose control upon things and to let life surprise
It involves changing what is not making us happy or letting us evolve … But
how would we take such a risk ?… We will have to learn to be alone if that is
a necessary step or we will have to start something new, from scratch….
It involves releasing the pain and allowing ourselves to vibrate with joy …
"But how could we do that ?… There is no way we will forget our personal
It involves no more dealing with others ´problems and bear their personal
issues and let them be the way they want and walk along their own path ….
"But how could we abandon them?… What would they do without us ?….
How would they succeed without our help? …
Conceding means many things …. it means opening our heart … .. it means
learning that our truth may change for the better (that means evolving) … it
means understanding that power often becomes our worst silent enemy…. It
means learning to see through the eyes of another person, with another
perspective and to accept that we do not see everything clearly …. it means
losing control and letting what is meant to be or to happen take place at the
right moment and not when we want to …. it means changing, having the
ability to turn the wheel in another direction if we feel we are not going along
the right way….it means making the decision of not having so many storms
in our lives and letting the sun shine through ….it means letting go what hurts
and giving ourselves permission to be happy and to release those we love
trusting they are able to walk by themselves …
Conceding …. it is a huge act of love that we offer to others and above all
things …. to ourselves …
Just ask yourself how much pain and sadness you would get rid of in your
life if you took the risk of conceding…
All Light and Unconditional Love