The Best Hidden Fear
The Best Hidden Fear
Some time ago I discovered that the WORST FEAR in our daily lives is well
disguised …it wears costumes such as… “this is not for me”…that’s only
for lucky people” ….”it is a matter of luck” …
If I told you that the worst fear is the “Fear to Success”..what would you say ?..you would probably answer..
Roxie, No way, who wouldn´t want to be successful?.. I would kill to be successful..
Then I ask you..Why is it you don´t feel successful ?..why do you think
that will not happen to you ?
Let me tell you that that fear is always well hidden and that is how it has full
control over our lives.. In fact, if it was visible we would have conquered it
Success tests us …. it demands all our inner resources to make it happen
and to keep it going over time.. success often sets a distance between
people who are successful and the ones who are not.. success attracts all
kind of glances and we need to be more responsible for every move we
make.. success can make us be afraid of changing and not in a positive way
..success requires changes, something we fear frequently and yet so
necessary to be able to embrace challenges and to be open to walk on a
totally different land … sometimes guilt arises if we compare ourselves to
those who are not successful, it is as if we could not enjoy of “our moment”
because there are people who are in a bad situation …. success requires
spontaneity, letting ourselves flow with the current and be open to everything
new … success requires us to fly without losing the coordinates … success
may arouse envy or destructive competition around us… among other things.
Well.. I bet you have seen yourself reflected in some of those situations
and that is exactly what interferes in your achieving your personal success
..It is a self generated inner boycott which conditions your life..But when I say “success”
I don´t mean making a lot of money.. success is about much more than that..
there are things which are much more precious and which can neither be bought not be sold ….
Success is building a happy family … enjoying of your job ..it. is having that
charisma which helps you build healthy relationships …it is being respected
by people because the way you speak and the way you are shows you are a
sincere person…. it is having the ability to touch the heart of people and
generate a genuine affection..it is knowing that we can count on someone
to give us a hand if we need it..it is growing personally and professionally
..it is deciding we want to stay single and be happy that way..it is being
able to educate children being a positive example to them..it is being able
to say “no” when we know we cannot do something..it is knowing to set
limits when needed..it is ending a relationship without unnecessary pain
..it is advancing without stepping on others´rights..it is learning to live in
the HERE AND NOW…it is being grateful for what we have..it is having
the capacity to enjoy of the simple things in life..it is being able to let things
go when they no longer help us grow or make us happy..it is all that and
much more and it depends on our inner journey, on our commitment to carry
out a happy life where true success does not have to do with money.
And yes..the economic growth is also a part of success..But that can
vanish away in a second..the other ways of success can last forever, they
make us grow as human beings and they support us when the storms come
and everything seems lost..
Think about it..and start working in your infinite wealth.. and you will feel
invincible for the very first time..
This is the secret of true success and the hidden fears that will not let us
flourish…we can help others awake telling them about this secret.. and
the fact of telling them will give them the chance to overcome this hidden
fear in their lives…
All Light and Unconditional Love